I always talk about how the indirect dating game that other gurus teach is too technical to be worth using. Do I use indirect game? Absolutely, however I do it very differently than almost anyone else. I’m about to show you how to use indirect game without having to worry about all of the stuff that is just too technical:

• BBW in San Antonio
• Philadelphia

What I’ve noticed, is that BBW love men with these outrageous personalities. If you want to get the attention of hot chubby women, then you need to be outrageous, as it usually leads to lots of laughter. And if you can make busty women laugh, then you’re in. How do I do it? I just blurt out whatever outrageous idea is floating around in my head. For example, I might walk up to a girl and say that her teeth look like the Orbitz girl, and then do an impression of the Orbitz girl from the commercial. Something like this will almost always lead to laughter.

• Loveawake Orlando
• San Diego

Take whatever idea you have and go with it, while trying to be as outrageous as possible. For example, let’s say that I just used the Orbitz girl thing. The girl(s) might laugh. I then might ask them their names now that I have their attention. And as soon as one gives me her name, I might make fun of her in a high-pitched voice and parrot her name back to her. Notice how I am taking whatever they give me and going with it, while continuing to try to be outrageous in the process, as outrageousness usually leads to laughter and keeping the big girl’s attention. If you feel that she’s not giving you a response that’s good enough to work with, then go back and make another outrageous comment. So for example, let’s say that I missed the opportunity to make fun of her when she told me her name, I might say “Guess what?”, and when she asks “What?”, I might say “Chicken butt”, laugh at her, and then ask her a legit question if she isn’t already trying to ask me questions and tell me more about her. Just remember: always try to work with whatever she gives you. I almost always work with whatever response the girl gives me.

• San Francisco

There is nothing wrong with using displays of higher value, disqualifying yourself, or using negs. However, almost every guy who uses indirect game will try to force them into conversation. This can oftentimes create some awkward moments or just flat out seem out of place or uncalled for. This is something that you don’t want. Instead of having these things lined up in your head to use, you should just wait for an opportunity to use something that fits in better with the context of the conversation. For example, instead of forcing a neg, a girl might tell me that she is a nurse, and then I might use that as an opportunity to neg her with something like “Ewww, you became a nurse so you could look at old men’s private parts.”. First, notice how the neg isn’t force, but instead it is skillfully implanted as part of the conversation and not something that came out of nowhere. Also, notice how the neg is so outrageous that it is obvious that it isn’t meant to be taken seriously. If I would have said “Why’d you become a nurse? Because you weren’t smart enough to be a doctor?”, then I probably would have lost the chubby girl. Why? Because it sounds mean.

• Austin BBW Singles

All you need to do is reuse those three steps to get a real good flow when talking to a busty girl and using indirect game. You don’t need routines, you don’t need to focus on all of these little technical things and timing, and you can talk to BBW in a way that is really natural and frees yourself from the anxiety that goes along with trying to remember to do so much.

• Phoenix BBW Over 50